This standard to me brings to mind Bruce Lee’s water quote “Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselvesā. One of my Students has ADHD and it meant that they needed an EA with them. I was in a position where I had no Ego or real teaching skill to fall back on. This allowed me to learn how to work with this student and their EA to better help this student learn, things like asking for point from on their worksheets, playing calming music and turning the lights off. All this allowed me to create a short hand with the student and I was able to bring them down when they got bursts of energy.